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Look
around you. Look and you'll see women today in a variety of leadership
positions. Elected officials, heads of major corporations, presidents
of universities, and much more. Or those women leaders might be
from your family, your community, or your work or educational setting.
But
in virtually every field, women are still a thin veneer when one
compares the number of women leaders with the number of male
leaders in the same or similar fields of work.
Young
women have increasingly expansive attitudes about themselves
and leadership. I cheer that change. For example, one of my favorite
cartoons is of a boy and a girl playing in a backyard. The boy has
on
the stethoscope and is holding the doctor's kit. The little girl
says, "O. K. You can be the doctor, I'll be the Secretary of Health
and Human Services." I like her attitude.
In
the past, women have often been uncomfortable applying the label
"leader" to themselves. One of my favorite Austin, Texas (my home
town) personalities is Lady Bird Johnson, widow of former U.S. President
Lyndon Johnson. I once told her that I admired her leadership. When
I see the beautiful flowers in Washington, D.C., or walk the Hike-and-Bike
Trail in Austin, or see a roadside with wild flowers instead of
road signs, I am reminded of what Mrs. Johnson has accomplished.
But her response was, "Oh, I am not a leader. I just helped my husband."
I respectfully disagree.
Women
have always been leaders, but they have seldom had the top titles
of leadership. An obvious example is that no woman has been US President
or Vice-President. The percentages of women leaders are growing,
but the numbers are still quite low.
Sometimes
women who didn't plan to be leaders are pushed by life's circumstances
into that role, such as the founder of Mothers Against Drunk Driving,
who lost a child in an accident caused by a drunk driver; Nancy
Brinker, whose sister Susan G. Komen lost her life to breast cancer;
Wilhelmina Delco, an Austin woman who wanted lights to guide her
kids as they walked to school and who eventually became an important
state official in Texas in her pursuit of excellence in education
for her children and the children of others.
Other
women leaders are featured at the first museum to focus on women,
The Women's Museum, which opened in Dallas, Texas on Sept. 29,
2000. I'm on the Board of the Foundation of Women's Resources, the
sponsoring group. Visit us online at The
Women's Museum, and come to the museum in Dallas. A marvelous
experience awaits you.
We
can enhance the leadership skills we already have, and we can build
new skills. Doing so allows us to have an impact on issues we now
care about and on those that we are pushed into by life's circumstances.
How?
First, practice leadership. We know that practice is the way to
improve sports skills or musical skills, or trial skills and other
skills. And practice is also the way to develop leadership skills.
Those who are leaders in educational settings today are those most
likely to be leaders
in community settings tomorrow because they are learning and practicing
necessary skills. I started out as the President of the Future Homemakers
of America of my high school. I later became Assistant to President
Jimmy Carter.
Second,
use the "critical eye" as I did in the White House and in other
positions. Jimmy and Rosalyn Carter are among my favorite leaders.
A friend recently commented that Jimmy Carter is the only President
who used the presidency as a stepping stone to doing more important
things. People worldwide know him for his volunteer work for Habitat
for Humanity, for example.
I am
not asking you to be a constant critic. Rather watch what leaders
do that you admire and copy such; watch poor leaders and avoid their
mistakes. For example, I learned humor by watching others who were
better than I and learning from them. Now I know that humor requires
exaggeration and an element of surprise.
For
example, George Burns died when he was 100. But when he was 96 he
is reported to have said, "I can do everything today that I did
when I was 18." And then he said "Just goes to show how lacking
I was when I was 18." Young women today live in a wider world for
women than I did at their ages, and I am grateful to have been part
of the process of changing the laws, societal attitudes, and self
attitudes that have limited women.
And third,
be "divinely discontented." Look around and see what you want to change,
what can be improved. I became a leader in women's issues because
those were the ones that most affected me and my generation.
Whatever
issues compel you to act, I believe that we need more leaders with
the human relations skills and the focus on education, health care,
and community issues that women often have.
Nothing
is more exhilarating than being able to make a difference. Women
have always been leaders, but the women leaders of today - younger
and older alike - have a unique opportunity to leave thumbprints
on modern events. I hope that you will help me prove that, indeed,
some leaders are born women.
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